The Challenges of Long Distance Relationships When your dearest has to shift base, you have little choice but to let him go. You know that life will be difficult, and fear engulfs you. What if your sweetheart forgets your love? What if love fades from the relationship? What if you are unable to live without your love? While it is natural to feel insecure, you must restore your faith in your relationship. A little space in the relationship will not hurt. In fact, it can strengthen your bond. Find the courage to set your love free. Don't let the bonds of love smother your free spirit. It may take a while to get used to this freedom. But only when you set your love free will you know whether your love is true or not.