One thing that we must realize in our lives is that people all around us will judge us, and expect for us to want to live up to their standards. The only standards we should live up to are God's standards, nobody else's judgment's of us truly even matter. Don't worry about others judgment's, because in no way, shape, or form, will these judgment's stop you from accomplishing whatever dreams or desires you have in your heart. When someone judges you it doesn't define who you are. Never change for anyone. It is better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for someone you are not.